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Met on the
'Net
by Sally Nichols, Outpost Contributor
Lisa Hill would not be where she is today
if it weren't for the Internet. She would most likely still
be living in Astoria, Ore. with her two teenage children and
running her beauty salon. Instead, Lisa is married to Gregg
Hill and the two reside in their new home in Stead. She met
him unexpectedly on the Internet.
"I was just sitting at my computer one
night when an advertisement came on the television that gave
the website address for a matchmaking system, so I tried it
out for fun," Lisa said.
Little did she know that it would change
the rest of her life. After perusing through the hundreds of
matchmaking websites, a Christian site caught her attention.
The next step was to fill out an essay questionnaire and the
computer would "make her a match."
The system found her to be compatible
with over 500 people. Her solution:
"I decided I would stop at the first name
that looked interesting. I saw Gregg's profile and thought
the first name looked interesting," said Lisa.
The computer found him to be only 16%
compatible with Lisa.
She did not even consider this after
becoming impressed by his writing in his personal essay.
Lisa sent him a letter through the matchmaking Bulletin
Board System (BBS). In it, she included the address to her
own web page she dubbed, "Sweetie Pie's Comfy Home."
It was her web page that spawned an
eight-page response from Gregg.
The two continued to converse via email
for a month. They suddenly lost touch for two weeks, "just
like it is with everybody on the net," Lisa said. Lisa had
not been online for that time, but when she decided to go
back on and contact Gregg, she received an email from him at
the exact same time she was sending him a message.
"Talk about God having his hands in
this," Lisa said.
They engaged in telephone conversations.
The first one was eight hours long. Gregg picked up the tab,
keeping one tradition of the man paying for the first
date.
"We never ran out of things to talk
about, we never do," Lisa said with a smirk.
Gregg most likely did not run out of
things to talk about on their first meeting. It was January
3, 1997. The flood had caused Gregg's flight to Portland to
be cancelled. He drove 14 hours in spite of this.
For the next nine months, Gregg would fly
to Portland every two to three weeks, rent a car, and make
the two-hour drive to Astoria.
"Realistically, what he saw was not a
comfy home. He wanted me to have a comfy home," Lisa
said.
In September, he proved this to her by
proposing to her. In November they married at the
courthouse, an appropriate non-traditional Christian wedding
for a non-traditional meeting.
"If it wasn't for a computer and the
Internet, I would have never met Gregg. I suppose God would
have put us together," Lisa said assuredly.
copyright May 1998 Nevada Outpost
http://www.jour.unr.edu/outpost
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